UlrichWolf Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 I probably should have made mention of this long before now, because we practically ARE family. Some of you did know, but at my behest, said nothing. About a year ago, just before 2009 Nationals, my mom was diagnosed with lung cancer. Before ever being diagnosed, she had determined that chemotherapy was simply not for her, after all, we watched that play out for my stepdad in 1992, and nothing had really changed since. Well, there was some sort of new experimental thing going, and she got in on it. And things went well, very well. They had managed to knock it down to the point where they were just doing radiation treatments. It was looking very good. Then, I suppose around March, or April, she'd gone in for tests, and they found that this stuff had just EXPLODED. It was everywhere. Lungs, lymph glands, brain, all over the place. We decided to have one last family vacation, and my mom and sister flew up here, and we drove all through the Ozark Mountains, and honestly, had a really great time. The hard part for me was watching them get back on the plane, because I knew that was the last time I'd see my mom. But it looked promising. She always sounded great on the phone, and I decided to go visit for Labor Day. I'd bought a plane ticket, and arranged to borrow a pickup truck from a close friend, and everything was all set. Till last week. My sister called me up last Wednesday, and said they'd gone to the hospital for some minor breathing problems, didn't seem like a big deal. That was at 9:00 in the morning. She called 45 minutes later to let me know that my mom had passed, and I got in the car immediately, and drove to Texas. I just got back Friday night. But there you have it, that's what has been up. Tim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave-O Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 I'm sorry about your mother, Tim. Sounds like it was a valiant fight though. My condolences, hope you and your family are doing well considering. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JAinsworth Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Tim, you have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your mother. It is good to hear that y'all had one last get together with the vacation. That is more than a lot of families have a chance to do with a death in the family. If you need anything or someone to talk to, give me a call.Jimmy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelby Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 sorry to hear that Tim, but you did have a chance to say good bye,, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ucw458 Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Sorry about you loss, I know this isn't an easy time for anyone. Best wishes to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richie_Rich Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Tim, I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom.Please accept our deepest sympathies and know you are in our prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IntercooledFlatty Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 I lost my mom in July 2000 from cancer, call if want/need to talk brother. Sorry for your loss Tim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UlrichWolf Posted August 29, 2010 Author Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Thanks, everyone. It's hard right now, and I just got to pick up and move on, and I will. Tim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theRobot Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Sorry for the loss. I know, as well as others I'm sure, that all the preparedness for a loss in the world, it still hurts. My condolences out to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Tim, my deepest and honest sympathy to you sir and your family. Losing a parent is one the hardest process in life. Having lost my father to cancer a year ago as well, I sympathize with your loss and sorrow. My best advice is to keep yourself involved with family and friends. Talk about it with those you trust, it really does help to ge things off your chest. I didn't realize how messed up I was until I started actually talking to family and friends. Keep yourself busy and keep close to those you love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pure_insanity Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 i feel your pain man. lost my mom in 2006 and still feel it. my thoughts are with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeMeyerhoff Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 Sorry to hear it Tim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmwii Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 my sympathies tim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silverarrow89 Posted August 29, 2010 Report Share Posted August 29, 2010 We've never met, but like you said this place is like family, my condolences to you and yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanta Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Man I'm sorry to hear Tim At least you can be in the comfort knowing that she's resting in a better place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wrngwae Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Tim i am truly sorry for your loss. my mother is fighting skin cancer right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dmyers151 Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Sorry for your loss Tim. My uncle is going through the same thing as I type this. We're here for you brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
89PalermoSHP Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Very sorry to hear Tim. My thoughts are with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vbrad511 Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 So sorry to hear this Tim. Take care buddy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boosted77. Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 She's not suffering any more and she is in a better place in Heaven. We're here for your Tim. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomad Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 I'm sorry for your loss, its something that you can never be ready for. Maybe you can take some solace in that she fought it in the way she wanted so that her quality of life didn't suffer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mstieg Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Best wishes for you and your family through this. Pretty cool to see so much support from many "almost strangers" on a car site of all places. =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
importwarrior Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 (edited) i dont know what to say, sorry. Edited August 30, 2010 by importwarrior Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mistapickles Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 I'm very sorry to hear about your loss...I lost my father about that quick a few years back, stay talking to people and active, once again, sorry to hear about your loss. Louis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Burton Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 Sorry to hear that, Tim. I lost my uncle and a friend to cancer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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